You Love HER, Can You Make Her Love YOU Back?

 I can remember a time not too long ago when I had a female friend that I absolutely adored and was totally in love with. I thought that I had done all of the right things. We spend a lot of time together, she was always smiling when she was around me, and most people thought that we were already a couple. Well, one day I decided to pour my heart out and tell her how I felt.

Unfortunately, I found out the horrible truth. She did not feel that way, and she did not think that she ever would. I was more like a best friend, or a brother to her, and nothing else.

Have you ever been in that situation before?
The ugly truth is, that most guys know exactly what I mean and have had this experience at least once, maybe more in their life. And most guys just end up getting the shaft, never being able to have a relationship with that woman they are in love with.

Can you EVER make a woman love you back when you are already in love with her?
Yes.

The trick is, you need to be able to create some distance with her, as soon as possible. The longer that you continue to be just a friend to her, the longer that she gets used to you being there with no chance of dating or sexual intimacy, the harder it is going to be.
And, if you EVER pour your heart out on the table with a long winded speech about how you feel, you are DOOMED!

Here's what you should be doing instead:

1. Pack up and move on for a while.
This is the most important thing and probably the hardest one that you can do. You have to give up that good feeling that you get when you are around her, with the hope of an even better one coming down the road. It can happen, but it will not if you stay in the role of being just her friend and nothing more.

2. Explore other women.
Chances are, if you have been in love with her for awhile, then you have been stuck on her and only her. That's not exactly healthy for you. Get out, meet new women, and open yourself up to the idea that there are other females out there. It will change how you see the situation, and it will not seem to be as dire.

3. Come back into her life, but do it the right way this time.
When you come back around her, you cannot go back to the friend zone. You have to start off flirting with her, teasing her, and doing all of the things that you would do with a new woman. Going back to the friend zone is just going to put you back in the same position and you will NOT be able to make her fall in love with YOU.

Reference:Chris Tyler