Do you wish he was in love with you? Are you obsessed about it to the point of thinking about praying or using telepathic powers to get some answers? Don't panic, there ARE ways to find out if he's in love without blatantly asking him! Here are the signs you should look for :
1. How far from now is he looking at?
This is a great subtle tool. In the conversations you're having, check if he seems to dodge any allusion to longer term commitment with you. Does he seem uncomfortable in talking about plans and dreams for the months and years to come? Also, you shouldn't take remarks like "I just want us to concentrate on right now" too lightly because it might display a desire to turn you into a simple fling rather than a love story.
2. Is it a one-way or a two-way street?
A relationship is a link where benefits and support go back and forth. Do you feel like that's the case? Or do you feel like he's only around you for his own benefit and well-being? A lot of dates and time spent with you doesn't necessarily mean that he's really involved in the relationship. Watch your conversation with more attention. Is he there for you and does he take action to support you?
3. Is he proud of hanging out with you?
He should! A guy that thinks he has found the perfect partner is usually very eager to show her to his buddies and relatives. Does he have any motives in doing the opposite? Is he trying to hide you? If you feel like that's the case, he might be just be spending time with you for other motives than love.
4. A Clear Relationship Status
This is a clue that usually doesn't lie. A man that's satisfied and in love with you will be pretty clear on what your status is, namely girlfriend/boyfriend. Why would he want to lose you? When a man keeps running around to test the market, it is fishy.
5.Trust
Can you trust him when it comes to making room for you in his schedule? Or do you feel more like a spontaneous filler he just calls when he's bored? Be careful when it comes to appreciating his spontaneous moves because they may in fact be done straight out of laziness or lack of care towards you. Does he keep his promises? Is he really sorry when he doesn't? Count on these clues to get the real facts.
So, looking back at these clues, how do you feel about his love towards you? Is there any? Look for gestures and look for real efforts, rather than words. Words are much easier to fake than actions.
1. How far from now is he looking at?
This is a great subtle tool. In the conversations you're having, check if he seems to dodge any allusion to longer term commitment with you. Does he seem uncomfortable in talking about plans and dreams for the months and years to come? Also, you shouldn't take remarks like "I just want us to concentrate on right now" too lightly because it might display a desire to turn you into a simple fling rather than a love story.
2. Is it a one-way or a two-way street?
A relationship is a link where benefits and support go back and forth. Do you feel like that's the case? Or do you feel like he's only around you for his own benefit and well-being? A lot of dates and time spent with you doesn't necessarily mean that he's really involved in the relationship. Watch your conversation with more attention. Is he there for you and does he take action to support you?
3. Is he proud of hanging out with you?
He should! A guy that thinks he has found the perfect partner is usually very eager to show her to his buddies and relatives. Does he have any motives in doing the opposite? Is he trying to hide you? If you feel like that's the case, he might be just be spending time with you for other motives than love.
4. A Clear Relationship Status
This is a clue that usually doesn't lie. A man that's satisfied and in love with you will be pretty clear on what your status is, namely girlfriend/boyfriend. Why would he want to lose you? When a man keeps running around to test the market, it is fishy.
5.Trust
Can you trust him when it comes to making room for you in his schedule? Or do you feel more like a spontaneous filler he just calls when he's bored? Be careful when it comes to appreciating his spontaneous moves because they may in fact be done straight out of laziness or lack of care towards you. Does he keep his promises? Is he really sorry when he doesn't? Count on these clues to get the real facts.
So, looking back at these clues, how do you feel about his love towards you? Is there any? Look for gestures and look for real efforts, rather than words. Words are much easier to fake than actions.
Reference:Tina L Jones
No comments:
Post a Comment