The last few months of your relationship was really troubled. You and your ex were constantly arguing, and you knew that something was wrong. Then you had that huge argument, and it was quite a relief when your ex walked out - the fighting was over! However, getting your ex back is all you are thinking about now, so what do you do?
Well, very importantly, DON'T make contact with your ex right now, it is too soon after your break up, and he/she probably doesn't want to see you right now anyway. So, put calling your ex on hold for now, and go on to the next step, which is to think about, and hopefully fix, the problems that caused the break up.
Obviously there were some really hectic issues between you and your ex, and these need to be analyzed and fixed before you can even think of possibly getting back together again. You couldn't be together without fighting because of these problems, and unless they are sorted out, the fighting will only carry on again if you get back together.
Be honest, and think about everything that you were doing that could have caused tension in your relationship. It is hard to admit to your mistakes, but if you want to succeed at getting your ex back, you are really going to have to do this.
Make a note of each and every problem that you are to blame for, and just how you plan to fix each problem.
Then, send your ex a text message or email, and tell him/her what you plan to do. Admit to your mistakes, apologize for them, and say that you want to fix your problems so that they don't happen again.
The chances are that your ex will admire your honesty, and will probably be encouraged to do the same. This will be really great, because then it means that both of you are working on the issues that made your relationship so unhappy. Co-operation is very important in a relationship for it to be a happy one.
Now because you are communicating with each other, and hopefully working together to sort out your problems, the chances are excellent that you will be getting your ex back into your life again.
Are you tired of failing to get your ex back?
Well, very importantly, DON'T make contact with your ex right now, it is too soon after your break up, and he/she probably doesn't want to see you right now anyway. So, put calling your ex on hold for now, and go on to the next step, which is to think about, and hopefully fix, the problems that caused the break up.
Obviously there were some really hectic issues between you and your ex, and these need to be analyzed and fixed before you can even think of possibly getting back together again. You couldn't be together without fighting because of these problems, and unless they are sorted out, the fighting will only carry on again if you get back together.
Be honest, and think about everything that you were doing that could have caused tension in your relationship. It is hard to admit to your mistakes, but if you want to succeed at getting your ex back, you are really going to have to do this.
Make a note of each and every problem that you are to blame for, and just how you plan to fix each problem.
Then, send your ex a text message or email, and tell him/her what you plan to do. Admit to your mistakes, apologize for them, and say that you want to fix your problems so that they don't happen again.
The chances are that your ex will admire your honesty, and will probably be encouraged to do the same. This will be really great, because then it means that both of you are working on the issues that made your relationship so unhappy. Co-operation is very important in a relationship for it to be a happy one.
Now because you are communicating with each other, and hopefully working together to sort out your problems, the chances are excellent that you will be getting your ex back into your life again.
Reference Monique Delancy
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