Tuesday, September 7, 2010

Earn The Love of a Man - Mini Guide to Success in Love

Are you unable to win the love of a really good man?  Is the single life growing dreary and you want to have a man in your life for good?  Are the good men you find attractive uninterested in building a relationship with you and you'd like to find a way to change that?

Too many women put all the emphasis on building a sexual relationship with a guy and then they wonder why a loving romance doesn't come of it.  Unfortunately, the two rarely go hand in hand.  Sex comes easy and the guy who gives you sex probably has no intention of giving more.

So why not start by building a more solid foundation.  Let's say you were to create a strong bond, forge an intense friendship that allowed you to really get to know him as a man and gave him a good chance to see the woman you are.

The basis for the relationship would be far stronger this way.  Of course you have to take into consideration that different personalities will mesh while others won't.  Just because you find him fascinating doesn't mean he'll think the same of you.

But by giving the relationship an honest start, by being yourself and showing him all the great qualities you have, a bond will grow.  Be engaging and fun and avoid loading dates with pressure to move faster.
The slower this builds up, the stronger it will be.  And don't forget to respect and admire him along the way.  So many women think only of how they feel after every date.  They assess how he treated her and how he made her feel, but they don't consider what they've done and how it affected him.

You want him to leave every date thinking fondly of you and looking forward to the day he'll see you again.  End every date on a high note and don't give him the impression you're too desperate by insisting you see each other again soon.  Let him be the one to worry about that.

You can win the love of a good man by being patient and slowly divulging the fabulous woman you are.  Remember, love doesn't like to be rushed, so why should you?

Reference: Tina Jones

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