How to Help a Man Commit If He is Scared? Here is How to Deal With Commitment Phobic Men

 Are you constantly struggling to make your man commit to you? Are you also being nagged by fears of him leaving you any time soon? If you've felt that he is scared of commitment, then maybe it's time to take charge and let your charms sway him into a long-lasting relationship.

Love yourself first.
Before you expect any type of love or commitment from your man, he must first be able to sense that you have a great amount of self love. This doesn't mean being conceited, though. It simply means that you know your worth, therefore, you deserve only the deepest commitment that your man can offer.

Show that you're a woman, not a girl.
It's important for men to know that they are committing to a mature woman. This thought helps assuage their fears as they know that you won't nag and cling like crazy; also, that you'll have a mind of your own, someone who can live with or without the assistance of a man.

Never show any signs of force.
For any man, force is a form of intimidation. And the slightest sign of force in your relationship would definitely send him running into the opposite direction. Don't coerce him into committing to you - this wouldn't even be half as sweet as getting his deepest and sincerest devotion.

Be a responsible person.
A man would want to know that you'll be making the right kinds of decisions with him in the future. It's very important for any man to know that you'll be responsible enough to manage your home, your finances as a couple, and many other aspects of your union.

Listen with your good ear.
Meaning, you digest every word that he says. It's not good to just pretend that you're listening - your man would surely feel your insincerity in the long run. Allow him to talk then listen with intent. Get to know him completely and this would pave the way to making him commit to you.

Let him know that you'll be a source of happiness not sorrow.
No man would stick with a woman whose scowl is worse than that of a hag. Let him feel that you're always fun to be with and that this would never change. You must radiate a special glow that he and other people around you would feel.

No criticisms please!
Nagging, criticisms, and clinging would only make your man feel that he will get more of these in the future. Assure him that your relationship would be something that will allow him to thrive and excel in whatever endeavor he chooses to take.

Reference:Krista Hiles