Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Attraction Killers - How to Not Destroy it With Your Words Or Actions

To fall in love is wonderful. When you find your Mr. Right, your soul mate, life is perfect. But be careful. Do not kill the attraction. You can accidentally say the wrong things and watch your relationship die right before your eyes. Be careful of what you say to your man.

It is great that you found the right boyfriend / husband / lover / soul mate. You are looking forward to a commitment, an engagement and a wedding. You want a meaningful relationship, not just a sexual hook up or friends with benefits arrangements. Be careful of these relationship killers.


Do Not Engage In Male Bashing. You know those women who make general, unkind statements about men? They will declare that all men are haughty or some similar statement. Male psychology says that men do not like that. Do not copy them. Do not kill the attraction.


Do Not Be a Complainer. Do you want to be able to say the words - he is into me? Do you want to avoid a break up or having him dump you? Then leave your depression, anxieties and worries at home. They will not make a guy fall in love with you. Do not kill the attraction.


Do Not Be Needy. A needy person is one who needs constant attention. She will expect him to always be calling or texting. She needs to know where he is and what he is doing all the time. This is no way to get a romance going. Do not kill the attraction.


Do Not Be Critical or Sarcastic. Do you like it when someone criticizes you? Suppose they do it repeatedly. Your man will feel the same way. Avoid criticism and sarcastic. They can be deadly. Do not kill the attraction.


Do Not Say Yes. Ok, you can say yes sometimes. You can say yes a lot. But the problem is that some women become yes-men and agree with everything he says and does everything he wants them to do. Being a doormat will encourage him to use you, not love you. Do not kill the attraction.

Avoid these negative behaviors. Replace them with positive words and a cheerful attitude. He will love you so
much more. You can live happily ever after if you do not kill the attraction.

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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.

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