What Is a Twinflame and Do They Really Exist?

 "...And when one of them meets the other half, the actual half of himself, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy and one will not be out of the other's sight even for a moment...Plato.

When we all divided into our divine male and divine female halves eons ago, the soul and essence inside of us knew(and still does) that the re-uniting of these energies in the future was an inevitability as it was always part of the divine plan. After the original split took place the individual souls held a yearning and powerful need to experience oneness again, this feeling lingers in every one of us, our need for wholeness will always be present. Only being with our divine counterpart can stop this longing. As a result we are always searching for our Twin-flame. What the soul really wants is it's feeling of unity with the divine essence from whence it sprang originally. This need for 'First Intimacy' will not stop until it is fully achieved. We have all eternity to make it happen, but it will happen.

All relationships seem to be the foundation for this questing for perfect oneness. Male/female unions have been brought together in love and torn asunder for thousands of years. However, if a deep, spiritual union with our source can be established and maintained, the chances for great harmony, peace and wholeness becomes more and more attainable. Twin-flame relationships foster a need to uncover our own true sense of spirituality and with only one guideline to follow...'Unconditional love'. This powerful rule that animates and drives all Twin-flames can trivialise the need for dogma in anyone's existence, for where there is true love you will not find fear.

Reference:Sally Jennifer Wilkins

Does She Love You? Does He Love You? The Irrefutable Signs of Love

 Why do you keep making the same mistakes over and over in love? Why does it seem that everybody else has a better love life than you?

Because those who are happy in love have learnt, from an early age, what the clues that someone loves you are, so that they now know how to diagnose an interaction well before they invest their feelings in it.

It is imperative that, from the moment you meet the man or woman of your dreams, you know what to look for if you want to be sure that they are attracted to you and then, later on, that they actually have deep feelings for you.

These clues come from:

1 - body language

2 - behaviour

As per body language, immediate, genuine interest in you can be detected though subconscious signals nobody can stop displaying, no matter how hard they try. So, if the man of your dreams struts up his chest, points his feet and chest towards you, opens his mouth and keeps it open, displays grooming behaviour, looks at you from head to toes (all these when you two meet or are in proximity of each other), you can pretty much be sure that he's genuinely attracted to you. If the woman of your dreams plays with her hair, strokes parts of her body (neck, arms), looks at your repeatedly and then looks away just as often (when you two are in the same room or area, visible to each other), you can rest assured she's got a crush for you!

As per behaviour, you know they love you when:

1 - they are genuinely interested in you, your life and your interests

2 - they listen to what you are saying attentively

3 - they find the time for you no matter how busy they are

4 - they find you interesting and funny no matter how silly the things you say are

Reference:Jules Monty

Tips to Read What's On His Mind - It's Almost Like Having Some Psychic Love Power!

Do you wish he was in love with you? Are you obsessed about it to the point of thinking about praying or using telepathic powers to get some answers? Don't panic, there ARE ways to find out if he's in love without blatantly asking him! Here are the signs you should look for :

1. How far from now is he looking at?
This is a great subtle tool. In the conversations you're having, check if he seems to dodge any allusion to longer term commitment with you. Does he seem uncomfortable in talking about plans and dreams for the months and years to come? Also, you shouldn't take remarks like "I just want us to concentrate on right now" too lightly because it might display a desire to turn you into a simple fling rather than a love story.

2. Is it a one-way or a two-way street?
A relationship is a link where benefits and support go back and forth. Do you feel like that's the case? Or do you feel like he's only around you for his own benefit and well-being? A lot of dates and time spent with you doesn't necessarily mean that he's really involved in the relationship. Watch your conversation with more attention. Is he there for you and does he take action to support you?

3. Is he proud of hanging out with you?
He should! A guy that thinks he has found the perfect partner is usually very eager to show her to his buddies and relatives. Does he have any motives in doing the opposite? Is he trying to hide you? If you feel like that's the case, he might be just be spending time with you for other motives than love.

4. A Clear Relationship Status
This is a clue that usually doesn't lie. A man that's satisfied and in love with you will be pretty clear on what your status is, namely girlfriend/boyfriend. Why would he want to lose you? When a man keeps running around to test the market, it is fishy.

5.Trust               
Can you trust him when it comes to making room for you in his schedule? Or do you feel more like a spontaneous filler he just calls when he's bored? Be careful when it comes to appreciating his spontaneous moves because they may in fact be done straight out of laziness or lack of care towards you. Does he keep his promises? Is he really sorry when he doesn't? Count on these clues to get the real facts.
So, looking back at these clues, how do you feel about his love towards you? Is there any? Look for gestures and look for real efforts, rather than words. Words are much easier to fake than actions.

Reference:Tina L Jones

How to Make a Woman Fall in Love - 5 Tips to Really Pull At Her Heartstrings

Unrequited love is one of the toughest hands you will ever have to deal with.  When you feel as though you are in love with a woman and you realize that she does not feel the same way,  it can be more than just a blow to the ego.  I know guys that have been unable to move on from this for a long time,  and it sucks away their energy and their zest for life.

If you want to make sure that you end up making her feel the same way,  then you have to be ready to start off on the right foot,  or else you just might end up with a situation where you are in love with her,  and all she thinks of you is that you are a nice guy.






Here are 5 tips to really pull at her heartstrings and make her fall in love with YOU:

1.  To make a woman fall in love,  you have to start off with the idea that you are not going to be her friend.
Sure,  it feels kind of good at first to be friends with a woman that you want to date.  Soon,  though,  you will find that it no longer is fun,  especially when she starts to talk to you about other guys and you realize that she just does not see you in that way.  To combat this,  you need to start things off right,  and not try to be just a friend.  Women just do not end up crossing the line of friendship into romance,  and to think that you will be able to make this happen,  is setting yourself up for disappointment down the road.

2.  She needs to get the feeling that she wants to be around you.
If you find yourself being the one that always initiates contact with her,  always the one that makes the phone calls,  or gets her to hang out,  at some point--  you have to admit that things are not going so well.  A woman needs to want to be around a guy if she is going to end up falling in love with him.  It's just the "natural" flow of love.  If you have to press her into wanting to be with you,  then she is NOT going to fall for you,  period.

3.  You need to be detached from the outcome.
By this,  I mean that you cannot hang all of your hopes and your happiness on making her fall in love.  Doing this,  the inevitable reaction is that you are going to be desperate for her,  and that right there is basically an instant turn off to a woman.  You have to be able to want her,  but not so much that it will "break your heart" if it does not happen.  The more you pine away for her,  the harder it is going to be to make her feel the same way.

4.  She needs to feel the thrill of the chase.
More often than not,  it is supposedly the guys role to chase after the woman.  The reality is,  if you chase her all of the time,  she will lose interest in you.  This is why it is so good to have female friends that you can kind of observe.  I cannot tell you how many times I have watched female friends lose interest in a guy,  the minute that he chases after her and she does not chase him back.  There has to be a push and a pull dynamic,  or else she will end up losing her attraction for you.

5.  You have to have the "brass" to make your move.
The longer that you wait to let her know how you feel,  the more you are slipping deeper and deeper into the friend zone.  Waiting for the right time is okay,  as long as that does not mean that you are going to wait for weeks and months.  The quicker you are to make your move,  the more likely it is that you will be able to get something going on with her.  Wait too long,  and you WILL be just a friend and nothing more to her.

Reference: Chris Tyler.

Find Out If He Loves You - You Won't Even Have to Ask

Does your guy tell you he loves you but you just aren't sure? Are you getting mixed signals from him that makes it really hard to tell if he really loves you or not? Do you wish you could get inside of his head and find out what he's really thinking? If you answered yes, then keep reading. You are about to enter into the way that men think and find out if he really loves you.

In order to find out if he really loves you, you need to stop listening to his words, and watch his actions. As the old saying goes, actions speak louder than words. If he isn't backing up his words with actions, it is highly possible that he is only telling you what you want to hear. However, if he is not only telling you he loves you, but showing it, then his intentions and feelings are true. Here are a few questions that you need to ask yourself.

1. Is he introducing you to friends and family?

2. Does he talk about the future with you?

3. Does he follow through when he says he will do something?

4. Does he feel comfortable having phone conversations around you?

5. Does he engage in conversation with you?

6. Does he talk about you or ask you questions about when the two of you aren't together?

7. Does he dress in things that he knows you like?

8. Are you the only girl he is seeing?

If you answered yes to most of these questions, then you can believe the words that are coming from his mouth. He is showing you through his actions as well as his words that he really does love you. However, if you answered no to the majority of these questions, then you might want to find a guy that you can get an honest yes from.

Reference:Tina L Jones

Are You Trying Get Your Ex Back? Stop Trying - Just Do It!

The last few months of your relationship was really troubled. You and your ex were constantly arguing, and you knew that something was wrong. Then you had that huge argument, and it was quite a relief when your ex walked out - the fighting was over! However, getting your ex back is all you are thinking about now, so what do you do?

Well, very importantly, DON'T make contact with your ex right now, it is too soon after your break up, and he/she probably doesn't want to see you right now anyway. So, put calling your ex on hold for now, and go on to the next step, which is to think about, and hopefully fix, the problems that caused the break up.

Obviously there were some really hectic issues between you and your ex, and these need to be analyzed and fixed before you can even think of possibly getting back together again. You couldn't be together without fighting because of these problems, and unless they are sorted out, the fighting will only carry on again if you get back together.

Be honest, and think about everything that you were doing that could have caused tension in your relationship. It is hard to admit to your mistakes, but if you want to succeed at getting your ex back, you are really going to have to do this.

Make a note of each and every problem that you are to blame for, and just how you plan to fix each problem.
Then, send your ex a text message or email, and tell him/her what you plan to do. Admit to your mistakes, apologize for them, and say that you want to fix your problems so that they don't happen again.

The chances are that your ex will admire your honesty, and will probably be encouraged to do the same. This will be really great, because then it means that both of you are working on the issues that made your relationship so unhappy. Co-operation is very important in a relationship for it to be a happy one.

Now because you are communicating with each other, and hopefully working together to sort out your problems, the chances are excellent that you will be getting your ex back into your life again.

Are you tired of failing to get your ex back?

Reference  Monique Delancy

Emotion - The Ups and Downs of Relationships and How to Manage It for Love

1. What is an emotion and what is the fastest way to manage your emotions?
There are many definitions of "what is an emotion" however, the best and most functional for Innerwealth is "a lopsided perception." In other words, "an imbalanced thought."

Take a blade of grass for example. You can mow it with a lawn mower and there's no emotion is there? You aren't crying at the loss of a blade of grass, you're not jumping up and down with joy and happiness that you chopped it down. It's a blade of grass, or, as Einstein once said about psycho therapy, "sometimes a cigar is just a cigar."

Emotion comes from the mind choosing a position - an opinion on something - an object or event then becomes "gooder or badder" than it was. Kiss a lover and during the kiss - it's a kiss. Then go describe that kiss to a friend and emotion overflows. It's either an ugly or a beautiful experience. Emotion.

A huge percentage of emotion comes pre-packaged in the form of memory. Take a rose for example, somebody gives you a red rose, your blood races and your nose smells that beautiful smell, but is that the rose you are holding or a memory? The answer is "99% of the time" memory, and that's the perception marketing gurus want you to have about products before you even buy them. Preconceived ideas include: racial opinions, self judgement, good and bad people by appearance, food, babies, life and death, good companies and bad. 99% of it, is pre-programmed emotional attachment.

2, Are emotions healthy and when do they turn unhealthy?
So, changing an emotion is often a tricky business. Hence, there are good and bad emotions on the first plane because if that memory or pre-programmed emotion is not serving us (remember what we judge we create, attract or become) changing that emotion can be a lot more complex than staring in a mirror saying, "I'm kind, I'm happy and I'm a very nice person." Deep rooted memories can underpin years of counselling, drug abuse and self-sabotage at work and at home.

There are also low emotions and high emotions. Low emotions manifest themselves in extreme physical and chemical agitation, such as anger, hate, jealousy, envy, fear and guilt. High emotions include: kindness, compassion, generosity and thankfulness. They are defined as high emotions because of the minimal physical reaction produced while triggering health giving chemicals in the body.

Most disease, both physical and mental can be traced back to low emotions.

3. Why is this true "If you can't manage your emotions you can't manage your money?"
All decisions based on emotion are naive. Emotion is a vital ingredient of life, and healthy emotion is critical to success, longevity and health. However, any decision based on emotion is based on imbalanced information and therefore not based on fact. Our ability to manage: buying and selling, saving and spending, wealth creation and poverty are often based on other people's emotion but rarely our own.

4. What have good leadership, great relationship and emotion got to do with each other?
Good leadership has two elements: Management and Leadership which are two very different topics: Management is manipulation of emotion, leadership is the opposite: Whatever we are attracted to or repelled from, leads us. So, a leader who is emotionally blinded by those they like and emotionally affected by those they don't like is being led by those people. A leader seeking approval is no leader.

Great relationship has two elements too: Romance and Love. Romance and attraction/repulsion are based on emotion, and are therefore affected by judgements and opinions and are subsequently seductive. Sustaining romance over time requires significant emotional awareness. Love on the other hand, requires the absence of emotion. We fall in love when we forget to judge. Sometimes we can be in love with someone, but as soon as we move in to live with them, or meet their parents or start talking religion, we can feel like we fell out of love.

Not so really, we are still in love, but because of negative perceptions and emotional judgements, we lost attraction.

It is therefore a great wisdom to know that the skills that make a great leader at work, will often kill a relationship at home.

Reference:Chris J Walker